I love my soulmate so much I that fear that it does not leave much room for me to love the divine

Gurudev Sri Sri - I have no experience of a soul mate. Why not? I don't think there is any hindrance. If you have a soul mate, and you found some new love, you can as well see that as a gift to you. Your friends are a gift, your partner is a gift to you. Honor hem rather than utilizing them. In life there are two position you take. Whatever you get, either you make use of it, that is your selfishness. Or you be useful towards it (or them) and be grateful, this shows your expanded level of awareness. This shows that your consciousness is now matured. You are matured. You are not just making use of somebody but you are trying to be useful towards them.