Every time you sit for meditation

Question - Gurudev, I do a lot for my family members and yet they are all always saying I am wrong. What should I do? How to deal with it?

Gurudev Sri Sri - No, don't say that they always say you are wrong. If they always say that you are wrong then it would not bother you or even touch you. You would take it as their nature. Sometimes they would have said that you did right as well. Isn't that so? If you can appreciate them when they say you are right, and when they appreciate you, you should also accept when they don't appreciate what you are doing, and say that you say wrong. You should find a middle path. You know, often, we generalise and externalize the problem. 'Oh, I am always wrong' 'Oh, I am always right', 'Oh, I am always like this', 'Everybody is bad. This sort of generalization and externalization of problems is very common. We should make an effort to step out of that and go beyond that. Just smile. If you feel that they are unreasonable in their comments and they are always criticising you, just smile. Don't be bothered about it at all. Educate and ignore, and walk your path. What can you do? Every time you sit for meditation, someone comes and complains, 'Why are you sitting and closing your eyes, it is useless, don't do it', never mind. When you wake up, smile, and sit again the next day and they will turn around.