How to cope with a troubled marriage, a marriage which has two kids? How to guide and give comfort to two young daughters who are caught in the middle of this marital issue?

Question - Gurudev, how to cope with a troubled marriage, a marriage which has two kids? How to guide and give comfort to two young daughters who are caught in the middle of this marital issue?

Gurudev Sri Sri - You know when marriages break down you have to deal with the children's psychology with care. Often parents pour all their grievances onto those young minds. They say bad things about their spouse so that the children remain closer to them. Don't do that. Don't say your father or your mother is very bad, this does not help in any way. All that you should make them understand, both of you together is that, 'We have chosen to go in our different roads but we both care for you.' That is it. It is a very delicate and very tricky situation, but it is a momentary one. You know this hard time will pass, you must know that. Just have patience and devotion. Your devotion, your meditation, your sadhana, all this will come to your help, okay? Sometimes we will have to take the hard reality of life and not brood over it, and have a better vision. Also, give your children a bigger vision of the future. If you keep them engaged in something about the future they don't go on chewing on the present bitter moment and take it too much to heart. So you should give them a vision of a better future, or talk to them about what they should do when they grow up, or what is needed for the country. As bigger challenges and bigger problems come in front of you, then the small individual personal bickering and issues lose their significance. That is the best way to handle this situation.