You see that person, whomsoever you want to forgive, not as a culprit but as a victim of situations, a victim of ignorance,

Forgiving is not only difficult, it is almost impossible as long as you think that someone is a culprit. But if you see that person, whomsoever you want to forgive, not as a culprit but as a victim of situations, a victim of ignorance, or just a postman to deliver what was due to you, you don’t need to forgive them. They just simply disappear from your domain.

~ Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar